I remember reading an article that said when kids are taken they are scared of making a scene. Tell her if someone makes her feel uncomfortable she must trust her guts and make as much noise as she can.

And the obvious her flower is for her eyes hands and touch only. Mummy may have to check it from time to time but only mummy.

Don't burden her with this information. The weight of this reality should never be a child's to bear...

Make sure she's in environments and situations where something like this is less likely to occur. Pay attention to body language of those with obvious guilt in an attempt to recognize those patterns socially. Can keep an eye out cle any sudden behavioral changes from her that might suggest abuse to take swift action