it's worse in the UK where they call it 'grooming'

grooming?? WTF!

Get raped and see how you feel punk bitch!

^ Sociopath identified. (I'm speaking about albatrosv15)

It's ok. We're going to hang all of you pedophiles. Right in Times Square. Right under The Eiffel Tower and London Bridge and in front of the Capitol building and White House. Your bodies will hang under the Seattle Needle and under the streetlights. The Statue of Liberty will be adorned with your corpses in nooses as we spit on your fucking pedophile bodies. Our cities will be filled with your dead bodies hanging as a lesson for all to see pedophile filth.

righteous anger and retribution

You work for Reuters ?

Sadly, i relate 100%

You are a wonderful friend and I am crying for both of you! Stay strong and just be here for him. You had no way of knowing and absolutely did not fail him!

So sorry to hear this @gamepwn . Your poor friend. :-(

I agree with @Vindicator , he trusts you, this is why he told you. Look, he didn't even tell his mom. You haven't failed. Maybe he wanted you to see him as an intact person, and it must have meant very much to him that you have been his friend all these years.

Anger, and grief and desperation are an adequate reaction on your side. This will deepen your friendship even more. Be there for him when he wants to talk, or needs help with going to police, or talking to his mom. He will tell you what he might need.

Thank you for being his friend! I'm glad that he felt that he could share that with you, because it really does help to talk about it. I was a victim of childhood sexual abuse from age 5-12 by my uncle. I told my mom when i was 13, and she called me a liar but then tried to convince me that it was really my dad doing it and that I was just blaming my uncle to cover for my dad, then she never said anything else about it. About 10 years later i was able to convince my uncle to confess to my mom himself. So he did.. she didnt say a word to me until 2 years later when i told her again (i didnt know my uncle had gone through with his confession).. she said she had no idea, and my stepdad said "so what, who cares"... these are people who pass themselves off as devout baptist Christian's and my grandmother is the type that reads her bible all the way through several times a year and is a fixture at her church.. all she said was that I should "forgive him"... then they all kicked me out of my family and are standing by my uncle.. my mom told my little brothers and sisters that "it wasnt my uncles fault, and that I was a very promiscuous kid growing up".. and they send my little brothers and sisters to go stay with him for 2 weeks every summer... they haven't even let me see my siblings in over a year... my brother is the only one allowed to talk to me, because he is 19 and an adult.. so much faith in humanity has been lost.. I am just holding out hope that all of this pizzagate trash will come out and there will be a "revolution" against child sexual abuse... but I agree.. they should all hang!

Know how you feel. Know a woman who was double raped by an abusive boyfriend and his brother when she was 15. Took her years to be able to trust straight men as a whole (I was the sole exception).

The fact he told you is high praise for you, gamepwn. It means he respects you and trusts your relationship. I had a very close friend who was molested for years by a neighbor from the age of 5. She grew up, put herself through school, including an internship at the BBC, became a TV news producer, had kids...then it all hit the fan. Having her own kids brought it all back. She ended up with major depression, which she beat, and then a brain tumor, which she did not. As I was driving her home from visiting her oldest child in college to break the news she was dying of brain tumor, she told me she was terrified she would go to Hell because she couldn't feel forgiveness the way the Bible teaches. I damn near drove off the highway. I felt that same rage you are describing.

I took a few deep breaths. Consulted my inner compass. Then I pointed out that a) Fuck that guy. Anger is the normal response of Good towards Evil and b) forgiveness is a decision, an act of will, not an emotion, and she clearly willed the Good. (In fact, willing a Good you do not desire is far more meritorious than willing what you long for.) God, who allowed all of it to happen, could sort out the details.

The look of peace I saw wash over the side of her face that wasn't paralyzed by the brain tumor was gratifying to behold.

I'm glad your friend has you to confide in. Perhaps this was why you were called to this PG work all along. :-)

You are a Godsend to you and a Good Friend. Suggest that he get professional help. I am sure there are many things he still needs to say. You are both in my prayers. God Bless You Both.

Many people keep this crime to themselves. I hope he feels better after releasing the pain. It was in no way his fault.

My most sincere condolences. This is the first thing that came to mind as I read your post. https://m.hooktube.com/watch?v=7EYvQMDLZZk

your friend is very brave to tell you

remember that he is still the friend you have always known

I wish the both of you strength, that both of you can heal

maybe some day he can join us here

sorry sweetheart. Awful. Glad he said something out loud instead of continuing in pain and silence. Glad you were there & informed enough not to “view him differently” know it’s bad for women too, but I don’t have to give up gender norms to admit something happened to me. Thanks for being there and listening. Means a lot when people listen and believe you w/o judging. ❤️

Fuck yes we will.

In honor of another man who agreed with us and was murdered because of his outspoken ways https://m.hooktube.com/watch?v=Xq-knHXSKYY

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